Monday, March 21, 2016

Japaication!!

So, we're going on our 6th full day in Japan & boy-let-me-tell-you, it's been brutal.  Don't get me wrong.  I love it here.  Everyone is so polite and helpful, and, even with the major lack of public trash cans, everywhere we've been thus far has been super clean.  The part that I'm hating...we've all been hit with the stomach flu *wahhhh*.

X got it first, I suspect from the flight here (which I will get to in another post), then I got it, then X's dad got it.  Poor X has been having a really difficult time adjusting to the time zone too, which doesn't help the situation.  I think last night has been the first night he actually went to bed at his at home bed time.  Poor guy has been a trooper though. I can tell he feels like shit, but he powers through.  At first he was throwing up all the time, now he's got the runs.  But through all that he still manages to flirt with girls and cause havoc in my life.  I wouldn't have it any other way.  I love him so much it just pains me to seem him in such discomfort.

Sunday (Japan time) had to be the worst day.  We left Tokyo for Kyoto Sunday afternoon, & to our luck *much sarcasm *, in the AM I am praying to the porcelain God & it's not because I'm hungover.  To top it off my monthly visitor came early so I was just hating life.  At this point I didn't want to go anywhere or do anything, but I had to so I sucked it up, grabbed a barf bag, & went on my way...to walk through crazy Shinjuku Station w/a ton of crap & a baby.  Btw, traveling w/a baby in Japan.  Highly NOT recommended.  The train stations are super inconvenient when dealing w/strollers.  There's elevators in some stations, but those are super tiny, like most elevators here.  So here we are walking through the crazy crowded station when X's dad starts feeling the need to regurgitate his morning meal.  This was horrible.  Now he was dead weight. I mean, thank god he still managed at least the luggage.  There's no way I would have been able to manage a stroller & 2 extremely heavy pieces of baggage.

So. We finally made it to the bullet train & got situated & from there on out it was me taking care of X while X's dad suffered in his seat.  X started having diahrrea around this time & had a blow out on the train.  Ok.  This is easy enough to manage.  After a little bit of fussing X napped until about 30 mins before our stop.  When he woke up he has another blowout & since X's dad did absolutely nothing during this trip, of course I had to manage this change also.  Lucky me!  Well.  On the way to the bathroom X yacked all over me...& all over the train. I felt SO bad.  To top that off, & this is totally TMI, but my visitor started leaking all over.  Ugh. This had to be the worst travel experience ever.  At this point I was ready to call it quits & go home. I felt like shit. X felt like shit. X's dad felt like shit & we weren't even in Kyoto yet.  I was so homesick.  I wanted my mommy!

Well, despite our on-board woes, we managed to make it to our sardine box of a hotel room, after a very nauseating cab ride, and passed out.  We all passed out.  Until the next morning.  When we woke up I think we were all feeling much better, so we ventured out to explore Gion for a little.  X was still pretty cranky at this point so we didn't stay out for long.

A lot of sleeping has been happening the past few days.  Today was finally a pretty normal day.  X's poop is back to normal & his appetite is back so we headed to the Fushimi-Inari Shrine.  This place is huge, but gorgeous.  There was a scene in Memoriors of a Geshia that was filmed here which is how I knew about the place.  In total it takes about 2-3hrs to hike all the way up to the top...or so I hear.  I have a 13 month old. I'm not trying to hike that far.  We made it to the point where you make your wishes on wooden fox faces & then left.  On the way up to the main temple there are a bunch of food stalls & I totally got suckered into paying ¥500 for a freaking orange.  It was really good, but g.damn!  My neighbor has an orange tree. I could have just waited & saved my self $4 & some change.  It's all for the experience I guess?  After the shrine we headed back to the room since X's dad is still dead weight.  Once X went down for a nap I ditched them to explore a little...well, more like, I ditched them to go get me some green tea soft serve.  So good, but so rich I couldn't finish the whole thing.  Now I'm back in the room, finally doing a Japan update while my two guys snore up a storm.  My little guy is asleep on my chest & I can't move my left side...or go the the restroom, but I so live for these moments.  I love it when he wants to cuddle with me.  I'm totally taking advantage of this now, because soon enough he won't want to be doing this.  Well...our adventures continue tomorrow when we're headed to Osaka!  Update again soon!

More pics to come later!

Monday, March 14, 2016

OFF, OFF, AND AWAY...

AHHHHH...so, by the title I'm sure it's obvious that we're going somewhere.  But where are we going you ask?  Well, the Mr. and I have been desperately wanting to go to Japan, so that's where we're headed.  We decided to throw Taipei into the mix, because, why the hell not.  YOLO!  Yes!  A 12 hour flight & 14 days with a rambunctious, almost 13 month old.  What were we thinking?!?  I am beyond nervous.  Excited of course, but soooooo nervous.  I really hope we're not "those people" with "that kid" on the flight.  Yikes!  Expect a lot of mini updates throughout our trip, and a ton of Instagram posts.  Follow our journey through Japan & Taipei @oh_hi_its_xan #jetsetterXAN #XtakesTOKYO #XtakesKYOTO #XtakesOSAKA #XtakesTAIPEI #asia2016 #wandurluX
See ya on the other side of the world!!

Wednesday, March 2, 2016

1 year...12 months...365 days...

I know I'm super late, but by now you should know that I'm lazy...hey...at least I own it.

Man, I can't believe it's been a year already since X made his way into this crazy world.  Time just flew by.  My little peanut is now a 31", 22.8 lb boy.  He's got a mind of his own, and already won't take "no" for an answer.  He's the sweetest little monster I know.

It's just still so crazy to me.  Like even though it's been a year I still can't get over the fact that I'm a mother.  I still wake up each day thinking "damn...is this really MY baby?  Am I really a MOM?"  I know, I know, get used to it already.  Am I the only one that's like this?  I can't be...right? 

So as you all know from one of my previous posts, we threw X a big birthday bash.  I mean, this thing was better than my wedding, and honestly I liked it a lot better than my wedding since I didn't have to deal with other peoples BS.  It was fun.  X had a blast as did his father and I.  X is not a sleeper, but on this day he went down for both of his naps and his bedtime without a struggle.  I was so exhausted from the super long day (and alcohol) that I totally passed out while putting X to bed.  I totally left my friend outside waiting for me to come back to drink...whoops. 

All in all the party was a success.  It didn't rain...thank god.  It was actually a nice, summer like day.  All of the effort and time put into all the decorations was not in vain.  I can't wait for the next party.  The wheels are already churning in my head.  There will be flamingos involved in the next one.  Again I will over plan and want to do too much, but this time these things will be doable because the guest list will be far more intimate and personal.

With that said, I'd like to thank everyone that came and showed their love for X.  He's so lucky to be surrounded by so many caring people.  A special thanks to X's Gammy & Gamps who, once again, opened up their home to a bunch of screaming kids and drunk adults, and who also put up with my crazy ideas and super messy crafting areas for weeks leading up to the party.  X's Gamps gets an extra gold star for, at the last minute, agreeing to make a giant wooden connect four game for the party.  It was a hit!

Also, thanks to all of X's favorite Auntie's who put in hours helping me finish my projects and came to help set up, make food, and fill a bunch of balloons.  That Thursday we lost to drinking half a magnum of Jameson was totally worth it!  

Finally, thanks to X's sperm donor (kidding!) who gave me free reign on all of the party planning...well most of it anyway.  Getting the right cake was probably one of the biggest headaches during this whole planning process, and X's dad really took one for the team putting up with my absolute need for a semi-naked cake.  It turned out great.  X, your dad loves you a bunch because he definitely put in a lot of work making your 1st a memorable one, but this will probably be the last time he ever spends an entire day looking for a cake.

I hope everyone had a great time and we can't wait to do this all again next year...minus about 75% of the people though.

Stay tuned for the last photo in X's month X month photo array. 

Here are some picture of the festivities!

photo credit: William Wang Photography. 
photo credit: William Wang Photography. 
 photo credit: William Wang Photography.
photo credit: William Wang Photography. 
photo credit: William Wang Photography. 
photo credit: William Wang Photography. 
photo credit: William Wang Photography. 
photo credit: William Wang Photography.


The following photos were taken by friends